Raising Children
I am quite upset this morning.. not with anyone else but with myself. It was a very challenging day at work yesterday, and by the time my husband and I got home, it was nearly 7.00 p.m. When we got home, mom warned me saying that the kids have been throwing tantrums the whole day. Mom thinks that it was because they had little sleep during the day. They usually sleep around 2 to 2.5 hours in the afternoon but somehow yesterday.. it was for only 1 hour. So that's why the havoc..
Anyway, we were too tired. And of course the little darlings just can't seem to get enough of us so they were playing and running around and making a lot of noise and jumping up and down.. That was when I sort of lost control of my temper and sort of yelled at them. The result... they cried. And the sound of their sobbing was just too much for me to take that I immediately felt so bad, and I started to have tears in my eyes. I did try to apologize, but I guess kids don't understand the word "Sorry"... And we have never felt so lousy like we did last night.
And this morning, on our way to work, we discussed in the car about the kids. I am going to surf the net today, and find some articles on raising children. Any suggestions, anyone?
posted by Maryam Syahriman @ 9:33 AM
2 Comments:
sis maryam, happy belated eidul'adha.
sometimes, we tend to forget that we'd be given a gift of being a mother. we lose our temper and felt saddened with the fact. i'd my times of shouting to my dear child when she was just being hyperactive and playful and afterwards, i cry, and hug her.
may Allah help us.
sis maryam, you can refer to this link. http://positiveparenting.com
Thanks sis aini, for the tips. Will surely go to the webpage for more information.
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